idk what to do ok if u had to go either to door 1 or to door 2 door 1 is far away but u have a chance to opening door 1 and door 2 is close but u have a 50/50 chance of getting to open door 2 (translation: i really want to get with this one chick and when i mean really want to i mean i really really want to get with her and she likes me but she is not single and the other chick i like but i dont like as much as the first one and she has somewhat been flirting with me and not single i dont know what to do please see give me some advice
I suggested that so you don't get advice from a 10 year old about a this kind of thing (no offense to any 10 year old kids out there :)) Honestly, if you like 2 and you know you like one more, never go for the one you like less. The reason for that is because you know that you pretty much settled for the sure thing, but odds are, you will still like the other girl more. The moment she breaks up with her current boyfriend, you might want to take that opportunity. Not saying you would, but you can't say for sure you know how you would feel if that did happen. You don't want to just string a girl along just because she was the safe bet. That isn't fair to her. Besides, if you talk with the other girl about it (nothing public so not everyone has to know about you talking to her about this), you can at least find out how she feels and if she is feels more for you than her current boyfriend. If she says no, at least you know, and then you can drop it and go with your other choice. Then you can at least have a better chance at having a fair relationship in which you aren't wondering what could have been if you had only tried.
I agree with leggy. You really shouldn't be trying to look for a move against someone who isn't single. You probably don't want to play the role of the rebounder either, and try to grab them when one of them breaks up.
You don't have to force yourself into a relationship either. Even though it seems like you like both of them and want to be with them, there will always be a better opportunity out there, just wait and see.
So I suggest not going for either one of them until some time passes and you can reevaluate the situation again.
super shawn 64 : If you like the first girl, go get with her. If she's not single, so what? If she likes you, go for it. Take her out, talk to her, whatever. If she's more into you than the other guy you'll be fine.
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