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08-09-11 09:57 AM
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As some of you may have heard, I've been in a long-distance/online relationship for the past few months. I've been talking to him every day for about seven months now. That includes MSN, on the phone, but mostly on Skype video calls. He has sent me presents in the mail as well. The intellectual/emotional connection is definitely there. I've never felt this way about someone before, and we haven't even been in the same room yet. :o

Today, he is flying all the way from Michigan to come visit me for 2 weeks. He will be here in about six hours (I think).

It feels strange to call him my "boyfriend"... I don't really like that word; he is not a boy and we are more than just friends. I think I prefer "partner".

I just had to make a thread about it because I am so excited!

Wish me luck...!!!
As some of you may have heard, I've been in a long-distance/online relationship for the past few months. I've been talking to him every day for about seven months now. That includes MSN, on the phone, but mostly on Skype video calls. He has sent me presents in the mail as well. The intellectual/emotional connection is definitely there. I've never felt this way about someone before, and we haven't even been in the same room yet. :o

Today, he is flying all the way from Michigan to come visit me for 2 weeks. He will be here in about six hours (I think).

It feels strange to call him my "boyfriend"... I don't really like that word; he is not a boy and we are more than just friends. I think I prefer "partner".

I just had to make a thread about it because I am so excited!

Wish me luck...!!!
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08-09-11 11:33 AM
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Annette : complete curiosity but did you use a dating site or just meet him as a friend and get close?
Well good luck,enjoy the two weeks cus theyll probably FLY by.
Enjoy pacing around restlesly,whenever im waiting on something 1 minute seems to take about 5,and you appear to have about 3 hours to wait. =p
Annette : complete curiosity but did you use a dating site or just meet him as a friend and get close?
Well good luck,enjoy the two weeks cus theyll probably FLY by.
Enjoy pacing around restlesly,whenever im waiting on something 1 minute seems to take about 5,and you appear to have about 3 hours to wait. =p
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thenumberone : We met on Facebook and starting chatting about a whole bunch of different things. He developed feelings for me basically straight away but I took a little longer to convince... Hahah
thenumberone : We met on Facebook and starting chatting about a whole bunch of different things. He developed feelings for me basically straight away but I took a little longer to convince... Hahah
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Annette : ah ok.i wouldnt meet anyone on facebook due to the fact i only add people iv met and that my privacy settings only allow friend comments.
I met my best friend online tho,had awesome fun in paris.
Is he staying with you and your parents or in a hotel?my friends mum was convinced i would rape him or something.
Annette : ah ok.i wouldnt meet anyone on facebook due to the fact i only add people iv met and that my privacy settings only allow friend comments.
I met my best friend online tho,had awesome fun in paris.
Is he staying with you and your parents or in a hotel?my friends mum was convinced i would rape him or something.
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thenumberone : My parents are very trusting of me, plus they have talked with him a little bit on Skype before. They know I can take care of myself and would not waste 7 months talking to a loser/creep. He is going to stay in the suite we have attached to our house, which is kind of like a second house except nobody lives there right now. Super convenient.
thenumberone : My parents are very trusting of me, plus they have talked with him a little bit on Skype before. They know I can take care of myself and would not waste 7 months talking to a loser/creep. He is going to stay in the suite we have attached to our house, which is kind of like a second house except nobody lives there right now. Super convenient.
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Hey it's a bit late but still I wish you best of luck. I hope it really work for you in real.
Hey it's a bit late but still I wish you best of luck. I hope it really work for you in real.
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I'm usually hesitant about online relationships. A few months ago, I didn't even think of them as real "relationships".  But I've tried it (NOT on vizzed, vizzed is like a working place to me and I don't do such things on my work) a few months ago. Well, I can't say I liked it much. Because, as you said you can't call him a boyfriend, since you've never even been in the same room in real life. Also for me there wasn't the possibility of seeing each other in real life, due to the huge distance =/  Your situation is way better though, because you can meet each other in real life, which is awesome.
I wish you good luck with everything! I hope things will work for you two

Also, it would be good if you were going to update this thread in 2 weeks so we know how things went
I'm usually hesitant about online relationships. A few months ago, I didn't even think of them as real "relationships".  But I've tried it (NOT on vizzed, vizzed is like a working place to me and I don't do such things on my work) a few months ago. Well, I can't say I liked it much. Because, as you said you can't call him a boyfriend, since you've never even been in the same room in real life. Also for me there wasn't the possibility of seeing each other in real life, due to the huge distance =/  Your situation is way better though, because you can meet each other in real life, which is awesome.
I wish you good luck with everything! I hope things will work for you two

Also, it would be good if you were going to update this thread in 2 weeks so we know how things went
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Wow, from Michigan? That's a pretty far trip I think, but anyways, hope this works out for the better. Good luck with that.
Wow, from Michigan? That's a pretty far trip I think, but anyways, hope this works out for the better. Good luck with that.
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I am wondering but like a friend I know, they rent out their suite. Do you guys do that/ have you before. Well in your case i imagine it will be interesting to meet in person and see what kind of physical connection you will have alongside the personality/mental one. What I mean is if in person you two will immediately strike up conversation, laugh at his joke, etc. < things like that. Hope you have a fun 2 weeks.
I am wondering but like a friend I know, they rent out their suite. Do you guys do that/ have you before. Well in your case i imagine it will be interesting to meet in person and see what kind of physical connection you will have alongside the personality/mental one. What I mean is if in person you two will immediately strike up conversation, laugh at his joke, etc. < things like that. Hope you have a fun 2 weeks.
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pacman1755 : Yeah, he took out a loan to afford the plane ticket and other expenses. He has the money to buy that kind of stuff, but he was tired of trying to save up all at once.

noelia : I'll be sure to let you guys know how it went... I'm kind of obligated now that I've made this thread, huh!?

UserMike : My parents don't want renters here since we have bad experiences in the past, plus it is disruptive/distracting to our family life to share this house with someone who isn't immediate family. Hopefully I will be moving into that space once I get a job and can pay my mom some rent.
pacman1755 : Yeah, he took out a loan to afford the plane ticket and other expenses. He has the money to buy that kind of stuff, but he was tired of trying to save up all at once.

noelia : I'll be sure to let you guys know how it went... I'm kind of obligated now that I've made this thread, huh!?

UserMike : My parents don't want renters here since we have bad experiences in the past, plus it is disruptive/distracting to our family life to share this house with someone who isn't immediate family. Hopefully I will be moving into that space once I get a job and can pay my mom some rent.
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Well, I hope you had Luck with It... Oh,and... Support a 6 hours fly only for Visit you? That's Love!  
Well, I hope you had Luck with It... Oh,and... Support a 6 hours fly only for Visit you? That's Love!  
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Annette : Congratulations hun. I'm glad you found someone you feel connected to. And think of it this way, you are connected on an emotional level so it makes it even better. I hope you have a good time and please do full us in on how it went.
Annette : Congratulations hun. I'm glad you found someone you feel connected to. And think of it this way, you are connected on an emotional level so it makes it even better. I hope you have a good time and please do full us in on how it went.
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Annette : Meh, obligated, I don't think so. Let us know about it, only if you want to.
Annette : Meh, obligated, I don't think so. Let us know about it, only if you want to.
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Wow, awesome!
Hope you guys have fun being together for two weeks
Wow, awesome!
Hope you guys have fun being together for two weeks
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Woo, I love it when those kind of stuff happens!

I hope you have good luck, Annette, and have a bunch of fun with him in Vancouver.
Woo, I love it when those kind of stuff happens!

I hope you have good luck, Annette, and have a bunch of fun with him in Vancouver.
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good luck annette i don't know how i would feel in a long distant relationship
good luck annette i don't know how i would feel in a long distant relationship
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Congratulations on finding what sounds like an amazing guy. You also seem to be handling a long distance relationship better than my ex ever did(hence why he's my ex, lol). I wish you the best of luck and hope the next two weeks are amazing!
Congratulations on finding what sounds like an amazing guy. You also seem to be handling a long distance relationship better than my ex ever did(hence why he's my ex, lol). I wish you the best of luck and hope the next two weeks are amazing!
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I think it is good that you are meeting. A lot of long distance relationships fail because people never take that step. I hope it is a lovely visit, and while I am sure we would all love updates, you only have to give them if you want to.
I think it is good that you are meeting. A lot of long distance relationships fail because people never take that step. I hope it is a lovely visit, and while I am sure we would all love updates, you only have to give them if you want to.
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You're meeting a guy from the internet?  I don't care how long you've been talking, for the love of all that is holy, be safe about it.  Meet him somewhere safe and make sure it's all okay.

Having read your other posts I'm sure you're taking care of yourself but the internet allows anyone to pretend to be someone they're not.  I am really a 16 year old girl this entire time and I'm from Nicaragua.  I'm not a 29 year old guy from Hawaii who surfs.


Where in Michigan is this guy from?  I have several friends there I visit in the summer months.  I know that state fairly well.
You're meeting a guy from the internet?  I don't care how long you've been talking, for the love of all that is holy, be safe about it.  Meet him somewhere safe and make sure it's all okay.

Having read your other posts I'm sure you're taking care of yourself but the internet allows anyone to pretend to be someone they're not.  I am really a 16 year old girl this entire time and I'm from Nicaragua.  I'm not a 29 year old guy from Hawaii who surfs.


Where in Michigan is this guy from?  I have several friends there I visit in the summer months.  I know that state fairly well.
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warmaker : yeh but the odds of you knowing every person in michigan =p
She seen him on video so that'd narrow the odds down,obviously caution is always required though.
warmaker : yeh but the odds of you knowing every person in michigan =p
She seen him on video so that'd narrow the odds down,obviously caution is always required though.
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