I vote easy because i'v never really had a problem getting a girlfriend. but dont worry man eventually you will find a girlfriend you just got to have confidence in yourself.

im too paranoid. i consider it but never trust anyone enough to try.

I notice that the people who want girlfriends and actively talk about or seek it are the ones who don't get one, and those who don't try, don't care, and don't try to make it happen do. Just try to be friendly to everyone, and be the girl's best friend before you be her boy friend. This can be dangerous on occasion, if she begins to think of you as her brother, so make sure to keep a bit of sexual tension and give her lots of compliments, so that she sees you as a single man who is her closest friend, and not as that guy she can tell anything to that's just like a brother.

Well I say normal out in the real world because I can feel more confident. When it is school though it is kinda hard cause they go to where you go and complications can happen a lot worse.

Originally posted by BTowns

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I notice that the people who want girlfriends and actively talk about or seek it are the ones who don't get one, and those who don't try, don't care, and don't try to make it happen do.

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This is because some, or most, girls like guys who have a carefree attitude, and are somewhat sunbconsiously attracted to things they can't have. I'm just talking real general.

Advice to a guy who wan't a girl friend. Be confident, not cocky; be relaxed, but not invisible; try, but don't be desperate. Again real general as some girls like the invisible type for example.

I clicked hard because it might not go well. It will be hard for me because the chances are about 45% of getting a girl friend.

Luckily, I'm already in a relationship, with a girl who I was really lucky to find...

But yeah, I was lucky, cuz getting a relationship is easy, but keeping one is the most difficult thing on Earth. Lol

This is because some, or most, girls like guys who have a carefree attitude, and are somewhat sunbconsiously attracted to things they can't have. I'm just talking real general.

Advice to a guy who wan't a girl friend. Be confident, not cocky; be relaxed, but not invisible; try, but don't be desperate. Again real general as some girls like the invisible type for example.

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I find it really attractive when a guy actively tries to get my attention (in a mature way, don't act like a moron in front of a room of people)... I'm pretty sure most girls thrive on positive attention - It makes us feel special and attractive. Even if they are subtle about it, making the first move is always a good idea for the guy, I think. You can give a girl attention and still be yourself. Personally.. Even making small-talk with a guy once every day or so is enough to get me thinking about him.

If someone is sitting around waiting for me to make the first move, I probably won't get the message. If you take it too slow, it will probably end up being too late in the end. Always give it your best shot - Otherwise you will never know if they are interested or not. It's always better to try than not do anything at all.

with the marriage one fun fun 22 years old and married ugh i mean it's great an all but lil young sux in a way

I had to choose hard here... but it's mostly because i don't want a significant other in my life at all... so I kinda make it that way. If i was to find a girl that is just right for me though I guess it would happen again.

I clicked normal, like others have said getting girls isn't a hard task, but getting the ones you really want, that is the real challenge.

I'm already dating someone so I clicked that but I'd say its really easy to find someone. But finding someone right for you is hard. Luckily I found someone perfect for me

I barely have time for myself, let alone some woman. But I do not need to date anyone. Any woman who looks at me does not think, "Bobby sure is a good guy." No she looks at me and sees a wallet. if a woman cannot look at me and want me for the great guy I am, she can f*** herself. I don't need that in my life.

It's not too hard, just go out with people you're already friends with.

Just getting a boy friend or girl friend isn't really that hard but, finding someone who you truly love and feels the same can be quite impossible.

i just find it so hard ive only had 4 girlfreinds in high school and that was only because of they asked me out but ive only ever been in love once..........

I don't date...

Never have, and I don't really care if I do in the future or not...

People suck, and I don't know anyone worth caring for...

i am terrible at this type of stuff because i can get them as friends, but im too scared to actually ask them out

I haven't found finding a prospective girlfriend very hard, but finding one that I'd actually want to date and has all the right qualities is very very hard. There are a lot of nice girls out there that would be alright, but finding a girl that 'fits' is probably the hardest thing in the world.

I clicked Hard, Mostly because some girls hate me for no reason. I have a girlfriend right now though, and she's awesome!